Every week there’s always a request for the top do’s and don’ts when it comes to  picking up women in general. Here’s a list of the top rules that you should always follow.

1. Playful: Good Sense of Humor
You should always have a sense of humor around women, no matter where your at or what situation. Some go as far as to say if you can make a woman laugh, you’re in. The general rule of thumb is to know when to be playful, and when to stop. You know you are being playful when the woman nudges you while laughing or she allows you to tickle her sides. Learn how to read body language, and play your cards right. More on Being Playful

2. Magnetic Personality
What kind of personality do you have? Women tend to gravitate towards men who have an interesting life and can hold his own. You need to be fun, spontaneous, humorous and most importantly, be a man. If a woman ever asks you what you’re doing, never respond with an “Idk”. Always seem busy even if you have nothing to do. The question is, why would she want to hang out with you? More on Magnetic Personalities

3. Style
Women love variety, and they love men they can’t predict. Whether you like to dress up or dress down, keep it interesting. If you go out to eat, spice things up a bit and don’t just settle for dinner and a movie.

4. Cologne
It’s important to smell as good as you can, so picking out the right cologne is essential. You want to have a distinct good smell to you that makes her remember who you are.

5. Indifference
There’s a reason why we want things we can’t get, and the same applies to dating. Never show too much interest in a girl, or she may lose her interest towards you. You call the shots, but never say “I love you” on the first couple dates, and don’t call her too much. Try to play it smooth and almost like you could care less if she liked you or not. Men who can find a balance in this rule have it good.

6. You Ex
Never talk about your ex during a date. You have no reason to, and the only time you can “mention” her is if your date asks. Even when you do “mention” your ex, keep it short, simple and neutral. You never want to put down your ex or blame the bad relationship on her. This is a sign of weakness and shows how much of an impact your ex had on you. One thing to always remember is to be aware of how much you talk about your ex, because she may get the sense that you’re not over her.

7. Looks
Many men think they need to look like Brad Pitt to get a date, but that is not true at all. The truth is your looks alone won’t keep a woman. If you are handsome then you have the edge, but being normal isn’t a bad thing. The one thing to remember is to look as best as you possibly can, and that means doing everything in “your” power. You can’t control your lazy eye, but you can control your hygiene. You can’t fix your scar but you can dress your best. You can’t do anything about your height but you can control your confidence. Make the best out of yourself.

8. Inner-game
The core to becoming a player is how secure you are within. Do you believe your hot? Can you walk out of your house and talk to every women you pass by, without feeling timid? The only way you will get to this point is to have a strong foundation within that will hold up your whole being. How much do you believe in yourself, really?

9. The Cool-Factor
If you’re friends were to rate you, would they say you were “cool” or not? Do people hang out with you, or do you hang out with people? Being cool means being the “shit” and only a select few have this trait. This is about your overall performance as a man.

10. Leadership
Women love men who can lead, and can make tough decisions on-the-go. Never “not know what to do” unless you have a good reason. If she asks you what place you want to eat, tell her what place you want to it. Don’t respond with a “Idk, anywhere”. That’s the lamest response ever. If she doesn’t want to eat there, she’ll let you know.